First off, I would like to say that I really enjoy your site, I stumbled upon it a few days back, and have been following since. You are very creative. I love your pictures, and your daily journaling. I would like to take a moment to comment on your header statement referring to regret. Or is it something that can and should be avoided by either adopting a more mindful approach to living or by challenging or changing ones thinking style after the regrettable incident? Regret IS something one should not fear. There is great experience to be learned, in the firm knowledge that there is no gain without pain? If you insist upon seeing with perfect clearness before you decide, you will never decide. Accept life, and you must accept regret. Until next time...Thank You!